I'm not halfway through my latest book, Same Lake, Different Boat: Coming Alongside People Touched by Disability, and I had to put the book down to write an impromptu post. I love special ministries . . . a lot. I've loved the company of disabled people for as long as I can remember. My friend, C.C., immediately came to mind when I thought back on sweet and funny moments I've spent with people with different shapes. C.C. was (and still is) in a wheelchair. We met at a college Bible study, and soon I was going to her house weekly to do a book study on Proverbs . . . or James . . . maybe both. I also drove C.C. to Bible study. It wasn't easy for my scrawny little 100-pound self. There were a few injuries and mishaps that I won't go into. I look back on my journals from those years, and they are filled with the physical challenge: how confident or scared I felt lifting her, how I'd drop her if I had to sneeze, how I needed to eat more spinach, and finally, the celebratory day when I lifted her and didn't feel like I might drop her. The thing I remember most about C.C., though, is how much fun-unadulterated fun and squeals of laughter-we had as we exchanged witty banter, and I made ridiculous guesses as to what she was trying to say, and as she watched me fumble about like the clumsy and awkward teenager I was as I did my best to take care of her. (I realize this sounds like a eulogy, but it's only in the past tense because that was in college-20 years ago. You can put away the tissue boxes.) One very important thing was that I never saw C.C. as a project or ministry-she was (and is) my friend. She was one of the first people I told when Device Guy asked me to be his wife--and that was a funny story in itself. I showed C.C. the ring, and she acknowledged it as being a nice gift, clearly not understanding the significance. I lowered my voice and repeated that Device Guy had given me a ring, this time asking her to take notice of which finger it was on. It all clicked then, and the air rang with her signature laugh. My point is this: special ministries is about people and family and friends; it's not just projects or a ministry.
To reinforce my bookishness, I was sold on this book the second I saw that it is endorsed by Susan Hunt, one of my all-time favorite authors. She lives and breathes family and cherishes church family. Her books are among my most treasured possessions.
domingo, febrero 01, 2015
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